Miami Athletics announced Friday it has designated current Senior Associate Athletic Director for Administration Renae Myles Payne as the department's Chief Diversity Officer.
I grew up in the 60s and 70s as a simple boy who happened to speak English and have white skin in Miami's "Little Havana" area near the famous "Calle Ocho" (8th Street) area. Born into an average American family, I never felt that I had "white privilege" when I was growing up in a large Catholic family with five children and only one working parent.
I had one pair of shoes that I wore until they wore out. Then I got one more pair of shoes. Of course, that was way before $100 Nikes or Addidas sneakers even existed. We had no idea of that luxury back in the day.
I wore "hand-me-down" old clothes from my older brothers most of the time. While we were never hungry (because you ate what was on your plate even if it was liver and onions) but we were never rich or priviliged or spoiled by any means. Neither were my friends I played with.
I also never felt prejudice towards anyone nor felt discriminated against at any time. I learned to speak a foreign language (Spanish) at age 7 because I had to. Did I protest? No, I loved itI Did I ever feel offended? Never. Did I always feel accpeted? Absolutely. I never felt negelected or left out.
My Spanish speaking friends were just my friends. In general we didn't divide into groups like male or female, whites, blacks, hispanics, latinos, or by sexual orientaion. They were just my friends. Nothing more or less.
And the Latin culture I learned to love. The food, the music, the culture and the people were hard working and life loving. Later I married a woman who born in Cuba, who moved to Puerto Rico at an early age, and only came to the U.S. later on as a teenager.
I didn't need a "Chief Diversity Officer" to enforce any rules. I followed the "Golden Rule" and the rest is history. We have been married for 30 years and it is the greatest acheivement of my life so far.
"We remain committed to strengthening our efforts in the areas of diversity and inclusion," Director of Athletics Blake James said. "Renae has been involved with this work for a number of years at several institutions and on a national level in college athletics. She is more than qualified to lead us in this area and she has already made a significant impact in her expanded role."
In all of my 30 years attending games at the Orange Bowl and 10 years attending games at the FSHAA playoffs in Orlando I never once felt strange, uncomfortable or offended at any game at any time. My friends (seen below) from Miami Central High School can attest to that. They welcomed me in and I never hesitated. What has happened over the last 10 years?
The department's immediate plan is to conduct a nine-week educational process focused on the origins of race. Dr. Myles Payne and Dr. Felecia Theune, a UM sociology professor and academics learning specialist in the athletic department, will facilitate courageous conversations with small groups.
There is no need to do this. Most of us (90%) are all reasonable people, we are the same, we all love one another. Please stop dividing us into groups that THINK they hate each other. We simply don't. We never did, and we never will. Unless it is the college campuses that are in the business of selling and promoting hate then that could be an issue, you think?
"As a large department, it is better to have uncomfortable conversations in intimate groups," Myles Payne said. "Race is one of the most uncomfortable subjects in the world, but since the killing of George Floyd, it has become the subject matter of conversations everywhere."
Senior Associate Athletic Director for Student-Athlete Development Shirelle Jackson has been leading the diversity and inclusion efforts for Miami student-athletes since 2012.
I met one time by chance (wearing a ST#26 t-shirt I had designed and had screen printed) with Allen Bailey and Drew Rosenhaus at the Hecht Center where we had a friendly chat, took a photo, never noticing or mentioning who was white or black, who was older or younger, or had the most money and why any of that may be of any importance.
I am absolutely certain that they both had way more money than I will ever have but I was not angry or envious of this fact. I was very appreciative and most respectful of the friendly interaction.
On the safe, calm and beautiful campus of the University of Miami, where I studied from 1981 and graduated in 1986, and worked from 1986 to 2002, I never once felt intimidated or threatened. Now before you jump to conclusions, I was only able to attend UM on significantly reduced tuition costs because both of my parents were smart enough to work at UM.
Reduced cost education via "Tuition Remission" was available to all children of UM employees whether white, black, hispanic, haitian, asian or otherwise. Of which there were many that were equally blessed.
I was always happy and positive in this dynamic educational environment. The students were friendly, the opportunities were many, the football team was winning and the girls all looked really pretty.
"It's great to have parallel paths in this space for student-athletes and now staff," Jackson said. "I'm happy to partner with Renae on this journey for the entire department."
The professors I had at UM were fair and balanced, they graded according to tests not political leanings. Life was as normal as you would expect it to be. In short, the times were really good in Coral Gables.
I ask you to think if Lamar Thomas (LT#36) and I went into this photo op (seen below) with him thinking "Hey, I am a black dude and this guy is a white dude, I can't take a photo with him!" Seriously, if you even thought this, then your view is whack. This never even entered our thought process.
The overall diversity and inclusion plan will also include customized sessions on specific topics, partnering with University offices and organizations, implicit bias testing, emotional intelligence testing, review of hiring practices and policies, and a book club.
Seriously? Just look at the photo below to know what you need to increase "inclusiveness". You do not need to start a book club. Just gather regular, normal people doing what they have always done all along: Cheer for The U, have a beer and just GET ALONG! It is not that complicated, trust me.
"When we hired Renae, diversity and inclusion was written into the job description," Deputy Athletic Director/Chief Operating Officer Jennifer Strawley said. "I was convinced we needed someone who could move us forward in this area as well as other administrative areas. Renae is helping us do that daily."
That sounds pretty promising and sweet, but don't sugar coat the bullshit, because when you bite into it, most definitely it will still taste like cow manure. Stop the lies and accept the truth. Here are the simple terms:
- STOP the hate
- STOP the violence
- We do not ALL hate each other
- In fact MOST of us love one another
- Bring back faith and religion into our culture
- Bring back family values and communication
- Accept one another and differing points of view
- Be able to share ideas and debate facts and positions
This nonsense that some people are selling just has to stop. The division that is tearing apart our Country is fake and needs to end. The love that we have for each other needs to rise up and conquer evil. And it needs to happen now.
And until this happens we will never reach our potential and realize our goals as a Country of unity, safety and prosperity.
I am proud to say that I cheer for "The U" and I pray for the USA!